25 Ways To Develop Emotional Wellness Skills
With practice, you can promote healthy emotional wellness skills bestowing a sense of awareness, mindfulness, and clarity. You may have to make a lifestyle change to get there, but there are small things you can do in your day to day existence to improve your state of emotional wellness. Here are twenty-five ways to create emotional wellness.
#1 Maintain Healthy Relationships
We have a terrible habit of minimizing the importance of relationships. We must look for ways to express our needs without creating too much chaos and confusion in the process of communicating with others. Look for opportunities to be there to lend support or a helping hand to friends and members of your family. Become a listening ear and offer encouragement.
#2 Make New Friends
One might think that we have enough friends in our lives but introducing new relationships into our world can add a new dimension to positivity and a happier mood. New friends can offer new perspectives and create a new world of optimism. Take the time to expand your circle of support.
There are proven relationships between physical fitness and emotional wellness. Physical fitness can deliver a wide array of positive side effects that we tend to ignore including natural mood elevation. Regular exercise improves our mental health and reduces symptoms associated with anxiety and depression. While exercise is great for your body, it’s also beneficial for our emotional wellness. No matter how busy you get, make time for adequate exercise.
#4 Practice Mindfulness
Create opportunities to quiet your mind and achieve awareness. Mindfulness is deeper than meditation. Although we equate the term mindfulness with meditation, it is more about gaining a recognition and perception of self.
Sure, it entails sitting in a quiet space, carefully managing your breathing and appreciating the clarity of a moment but, it can serve as a lens into self-acceptance. With self-acceptance, we get to reap the benefits of being compassionate and accepting of others.
In addition to improving your emotional health, the practice of mindfulness meditation provides a bevy of benefits including:
- Stress management
- Immune system boost
- Confidence builder
- Improves concentration
- Reduces symptoms associated with anxiety and depression
- Slows aging
- Reduction in blood pressure
For meditation to be effective, consistency is key. Mindfulness prompts us to live our lives in the present.(Source)
#5 Embrace Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
When you can see yourself clearly –moods, thoughts, flaws, strengths, and weaknesses, you begin to identify how it is each of these aspects can have a positive and negative impact on your emotional beliefs and reactions.
Practicing emotional wellness can assist us in training our minds to make better decisions and readjust how it is we respond to others and situations.(Source)
#6 Stress Management
Practicing emotional wellness enables us to make better decisions about the foods we eat, examine our relationships, and other aspects of our chaotic world on a daily basis so that we become more methodical in our approach of problem-solving
#7 Emotional Wellness and Visualization
Visualization can be an excellent way to examine your issues and set a goal for resolving them in a way that promotes emotional wellness. Visualization is a mental practice that challenges us to use our mind. Close and imagination to visualize a specific outcome in our lives.
If you find yourself struggling with a particular problem or making a decision, try visualizing the result. This action may require you to imagine yourself within one or more scenarios to produce the final decision or outcome.(Source)
How to Practice Visualization?
For visualization exercises, you will need to find a quiet space. Sit or lay down. Close your eyes and take a deep breath. Imagine a serene place such as a beach, staring out into the ocean at sunset. Hear the sounds of the waves. Smell the scent of the sea. Feel the sand between your toes. (Source)
#8 Learn from Your Mistakes
It’s cliché, but the adage stands the test of time. Learn from your mistakes. Mistakes may evoke feelings of failure but putting your emotions aside and taking your lesson from the error can prove beneficial long-term. It opens your eyes to those things that are within your control and those things not in your power.
Finding the path to acceptance can do wonders to boost your motivation to try again.
#9 Push Forward
It’s easy to sulk after an infuriating event, however, stewing in all that is wrong will do nothing for your mental health. Find a way to push forward by doing something that redirects your thoughts and attention elsewhere. What’s done is done. Read a book. Watch a favorite movie or listen to your favorite music, but find something to help you get past a disappointing experience.
#10 Define Your Self-worth
Self-worth is an absolute must for emotional wellness. None of us are perfect, but we each do something well. Find value in yourself. Take the time to celebrate your successes –professional and personal. Acknowledge your positive attributes and their importance in your life and the world. Self-worth can lead to self-empowerment.
Stare down your limitations and weaknesses and find the confidence to be who you are as an individual. Teach yourself to care for and value who you are as a human being. Steer clear of self-criticism and self-destructive behaviors. Instead, focus on your strengths and what it is you do well.
#11 Establish Emotional Wellness As A Priority
Make your emotional wellness a priority. Take your emotional wellness seriously. It will require you to make a conscious effort to self-reflect and make decisions that prioritize you and not others.
Develop healthy coping techniques that allow you time to think and regain a sense of self.
#12 Ask For Help
The next skill requires us to be proactive in seeking help. This suggestion can be in the form of professional support, or it can be in the way of friends and family. Friends, sometimes make the best listeners as they can be objective and offer advice. Also, friends can help us with everyday tasks that might otherwise seem overwhelming in the face of other problems creating emotional distress in our lives.
Do not shy away from help. Seize opportunities to share your feelings with others who can offer practical advice. Do not isolate yourself from the world or support system around you. Sure, it may be appealing to handle everything yourself, but it’s not good for your emotional wellness. Accept the support of others.
#13 Express Yourself
Tell people around you when you are upset about something. Do not hold it all inside and allow it to swell. Bottling up your feelings can trigger symptoms of stress. Learn to find safe and constructive ways to express yourself. Look for ways to manage your anger and find forgiveness when possible.
Forgiveness can help you to manage your stress and reduce the sentiment behind your anger or resentment.
#14 Positive Attitude and Emotional Wellness
Find a path to positive thinking. Establishing a positive outlook does not necessarily mean you can eradicate negativity from your life. Instead, it enables us to grow and usher in new ideas and positive feelings.
Rather than dwelling on all of the bad things that may occur, you can shift your thoughts to believe the best may emerge in a problematic situation.
Self-talk is one facet of positive thinking. It forces us to take control of all of those negative thoughts running through our mind and convert them into positive thoughts. An optimist is an example of individuals who regularly practice positive thinking.
The Mayo Clinic cites several health benefits that accompany positive thinking:
- Lower levels of distress
- Decrease in rates of depression
- Increased life span
- Improved cardiovascular health
- Better coping skills
Emotional wellness requires us to squash negative emotions and recover from negative experiences. This quality also enables you to bounce back faster from difficulties.(Source)
Characteristics Of Negative Thinking
Sometimes we may not recognize negative thinking. The Mayo Clinic states there are four characteristics of examples of negative thinking.
Polarizing – When we polarize, we only see things as being good or bad. There is nothing in the middle, and we tend to believe that perfection is the only way.
Filtering – Filtering takes place when we magnify the negative parts of our life but ignore or filter out all of the positive facets of our life. We all have done it at one point or another. You complete 20 tasks amazingly in a single day but those three things you execute poorly on that same day override your thoughts.
Personalizing – Do you assign blame to yourself for every bad thing or make “what if” assumptions? If so, you may be personalizing things that are not your fault. This act can contribute to negative thoughts and behaviors. How can you integrate positive thinking into your daily practice? Don’t worry.
No one expects you to become a born-again optimist suddenly or to see the world through those perpetual rose-colored classes. Ignoring what is real can have an adverse outcome as well.(Source)
Becoming A More Positive Thinker
- Find Humor
- Look for humor in even the most difficult of situations.
- Identify the Fuel of Your Negative Thinking – Something in your life may be triggering negative thoughts. Take some time out for reflection to better understand why this area of your life is proving to be so complicated. Examine what steps you need to take to take control and turn things around.
- Awareness – Practice awareness. Make a concerted effort to be aware of negative thoughts as you confront complex situations.
- You must become resilient and find a way to wellness.
#15 Confront Stress
Stress can create a feeling of fight or flight, enabling us to rise to the top in even the most difficult of environments and situations. Long-term stress, however, can become exhausting. You must establish healthy coping mechanisms for resilience and emotional wellness (National Institute of Health).
#16 Get Some Sleep
Never underestimate the need for sleep. Adequate rest can give us a great deal of perspective and support our mental and physical health. Sleep enables us to make better decisions, think clearer and have better focus.
Sleep replenishes our energy levels and permits us to navigate even the most difficult of tasks or events.
#17 Find Your Work-Life Balance
Work, work, work! Be careful not to allow work to rule your life. Remember to take time off for yourself and your family. Remember, you have to invest in your relationships. It is a balance that will require you to set clear goals and make efforts to stick to the plan without creating too much additional stress in your life.
#18 Don’t Be Afraid to Make a Change
Emotional wellness is an ongoing process. It requires us to be willing to adapt to change or create the change. You must continually evaluate your life and what is happening in your life. Be ready to make the necessary changes that are within your control to help you to maintain or potentially expand positivity and keep negativity at bay. Pay attention to what makes you happy, angry or sad. Address those things and make a change as – necessary.
#19 Step Outside Of Your Comfort Zone
There is a lot to be said about stepping outside of your comfort zone. It removes the fear of the unknown and increases our knowledge in ways we never thought possible. New knowledge reduces fear and opens a new world to our mental health and emotional wellness.
Here are seven ways to jump out of your comfort zone.
– Start Small
Choose something that encourages you to stretch without breaking your spirit. Sometimes we have to start small to experience big things.
– Envision Success
Try not to think about all of the things that might go wrong as you step outside of your comfort zone. Instead, close your eyes and imagine success. Picture the end result. What is the one thing that will equate to success in this exercise?
– Ask For Help
– Get Ready to Be Uncomfortable
Leaving your comfort zone will be uncomfortable. Greet it with a handshake and keep going. If it were comfortable, you wouldn’t be leaving your comfort zone.
– Recon Your Journey
Don’t be afraid to perform a bit of research or reconnaissance work to determine what it is you are getting yourself into with leaving your comfort zone.
– Treat Your Journey as a Learning Opportunity
– Prepare for Battle with Fear
Identify what it is that is creating a sense of ear and make a plan for how you will confront each of those things head-on during this process. (Source)
#20 Emotional Wellness and Healthy Diet
The foods we eat can impact our emotional health. A healthy diet promotes emotional wellness. Indulging in the wrong foods can wreak havoc on your emotional welfare. Studies demonstrate that those who follow a healthy diet have lower stress levels and better mental health outlook.
Pay attention to the foods you eat and how they make you feel. Clean eating can help to boost your emotional wellness. Take steps to limit your alcohol intake. Alcohol can be a means of numb ourselves from what is happening around us or serve as a stimulant to more significant problems.
Take control of your diet by choosing foods that boost your mood but do not cause the scales to tip.
#21 Set New Goals
Set goals for yourself at the beginning of each new week. These goals might be professional goals, personal goals or academic goals. Write these goals down in a journal or goal book. Determine what steps you need to take to achieve those goals.
Here are a few tips to remember when setting goals.
Make Your Goals SMART
- Specific: Goals must be clear, not vague or ambiguous.
- Measurable: Your goals must have a specific metric.
- Attainable: The goal you set must be achievable or within reach. If you set the bar too high, you may increase the risk for failure.
- Realistic: Keep your goals grounded in reality. This requirement means that the goal we choose must be somewhat in step with the reality of our lives. Yes, you can set goals that challenge you to grow, but it also has to be realistic.
- Time: You must attach a time-frame to your goal. A deadline will help to hold you accountable and challenge you to get to work if you fall too far behind in moving closer to completion.
Remember to make the time to evaluate and reflect on your goals. Permit yourself to make adjustments as you conquer your goals. As you complete each one, celebrate your successes no matter how big or small.
#22 Say No Without Regret
For some of us, it is a natural reflex to “say yes” even when it is in our best interest “to say no.” The art of saying no is a “must-have” skill for emotional wellness.
You must learn to recognize what you can or cannot handle. Be prepared to provide justification as necessary and even offer solutions to how someone else might be able to assist with “the ask.”
Here are a few additional tips for saying no:
- Separate the person you are refusing from the physical ask itself.
- Provide a compromise or alternative
- Buy time to formulate your “no” response
- Practice saying “no”
- Justify, but do not overexplain the “no”
- Be gracious and respectful to the recipient of your “no”
#23 Take Up Journaling
You can use journaling to capture your thoughts and feelings. It’s an excellent way to document your life experiences and your reactions to various events. You can record your fears, your hopes, and all of those things that generate positive vibes.
Psychcentral.com identifies that journaling provides the following benefits:
- Clarify your thoughts and feelings
- Get to know who you are as an individual
- Reduce stress
- Disagreement resolution
- Other health benefits of journaling include:
- Improved immune system
- Enhanced liver functions
- Decrease in blood pressure
- Healthy lung functions
The practice of journaling does not require much time in our day. You can take a few minutes out the day to jot down how you are feeling and who is the driver of those feelings. Need help with getting started? Here are a few tips for journaling:
- Start your day and end your day journaling
- Do not censor your thoughts
- Don’t just focus on the negative. Include the positive
- Be consistent in journaling (Source)
#24 Listen To Others
Listen to the opinion of others. There are often things within ourselves that we don’t always recognize or accept to be true. Honest opinions can steer us in the right direction of emotional wellness. Find ways to process what is being said and adjust as necessary.
Sometimes we need honest opinions from reliable people around us. So, take time to listen on what they have to say about you, and allow yourself to process ways that you can change and improve your life based on those observations.
#25 Live Your Life
Don’t forget to get out there and live your life. When we are not emotionally well, it can cause us to lose our real sense of purpose. Find your purpose and meaning in life and hold on for the ride. With purpose, we can achieve positivity and improve self-esteem.
Having the opportunity to achieve big and small things can be rewarding. Purpose gives us pleasure and pleasure feeds our overall psychological health. Look for opportunities to grow, and consciously find joy in each day. Stop complaining about your problems and solve for X instead.
Develop Emotional Wellness Skills [Conclusion]
We must take steps to prioritize our emotional wellness. Failure to make our emotional wellness a top priority can contribute to a variety of physical and mental problems ranging from insomnia, pain, high blood pressure and poor concentration to anxiety and depression.
There are multiple steps we can take to begin to move closer to emotional wellness. Each of the skills identified in this report can be useful in helping you to achieve greatness.
Remember to be open to change and aware of those negative factors in your life that may be causing you emotional distress.
Take action today to improve your emotional wellness and remember to seek help as necessary to support you in your efforts.
Stay well and take care!
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